How to encourge her

If Jacob can work the land each day for 14 years just out of love, then you can believe in her, help her, pray for her, and lead her each day.

Lead

“Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord,”

‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭22‬ ‭CSB‬‬

The women is to submit but that’s only if their husband loves her. Yet if you love me than you will lead me . As the girl follows the males lead she will become more like him as she sees things in his perspective. So if it’s the case to encourage photography skills or going to the gym then go to gym with her or take photos with her. Taking the lead will help make the path for her

Say what you feel

“He who gives an honest answer gives a kiss on the lips.”

‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭24‬:‭26‬ ‭CSB

Being honest is as sweet as giving a kiss. Although sometimes guys are scared to be honest when my boyfriend tells me the truth about how he feels I’m able to feel secure when he calls me beautiful or says my artwork is good. Because I see his honesty and I see that he tells me the truth . It’s good to know that he means it when he calls me beautiful.

Don’t brag when she is telling you something about her

“Love is patient, love is kind. Love does not envy, is not boastful, is not arrogant,”

‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭13‬:‭4‬ ‭CSB‬‬

Nothing boils my blood after I say something like, “Sorry for not arriving on time I was handling a shipment that took a while.” And then someone responding with how much money they make from shipments and how much more they got . It’s even worse if your girlfriend is talking about how she just won award and instead of congratulating her you just talk about an award you won 2 years ago in the same subject

Believe in her

“It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”

‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭13‬:‭7‬ ‭CSB‬‬

Believing she can do it even when things seem unlikely is going to give her the motivation to actually succeed! There are going to be a plenty of people who are going to say negative things. Try to be the one who sparks a little joy in her heart. You never know, maybe you believing in her is the thing that made her win.

Pray for her and continue to encourage her

“pray without ceasing;”

‭‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5‬:‭17‬ ‭NASB1995‬‬

The more you pray for her well being the more you look after her. Don’t stop praying for her because praying to an almighty God about her shows true love.

Don’t stop working for her

“So Jacob served seven years for Rachel and they seemed to him but a few days because of his love for her.”

‭‭Genesis‬ ‭29‬:‭20‬ ‭NASB1995‬‬

Jacob never stopped working for her. And even when he finished working the 7 years he continued for another 7 years after Laban made him ! If Jacob can work the land each day for 14 years just out of love, then you can believe in her, help her, pray for her, and lead her each day.